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Work, daycare and the absence of both Pt 2
I finished part 1 of this series by questioning why it was so hard for mothers to re-enter the workforce after taking time off to care for their young children. The previous post wasn’t strictly about daycare but the undervaluation of a mother’s role and experiences is an important consideration when discussing the interactions between women, daycare and the workplace.
In the Globe & Mail article, http://www.theglobeandmail.com/globe-investor/personal-finance/household-finances/the-daycare-tipping-point/article4465673/?service=mobile
I am quoted saying:
“Right now, I will be paying more in child care than I will make at work part-time, but I will keep my job, my benefits and my continuity of employment. The money that it is costing me to go back to work, I see it as an investment in my career.”
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Day trip (Or why good baby carriers and large families rock)
As you may have noticed, the move and consecutive adaptation-reorganization have punched a significant hole in my ability to blog. Not only time is at a premium but I am mentally and physically exhausted and unable to string two coherent ideas together. I have posts started on attachment parenting twins, the twins’ 9 month update, the twins’ birth story, an update on the running diaries about setbacks (ha!) but I’m unable to finish them. So until my brain returns, here is another lazy picture post.

This month we are experimenting with different infant/child carriers. With 3 under 3 at home during the day (and with me to run errands), I am definitely short a few hands. Pushing a bulky double stroller just adds to my misery and I started carrying the twins in two baby carriers, one at the front and one at the back. We went on a countryside stroll this Father’s Day and left the stroller in the van. In this picture (above), Clara is carrying Lucas in an Ergo baby carrier, Eloise is carrying Eve in a BabyHawk Mai Tei and I have Sarah in a Boba 3G.

The Boba 3G was a loaner from a local breastfeeding and babywearing store. Go give Milkface some love: they are awesome. The carrier goes on and off easily and is the best I found for carrying a squirmy preschooler. My daughter is 35 lbs and fits in the Boba like a dream thanks to a high back, wide body and handy foot stirrups.

… but bear with me: it makes my life a lot easier. She is near me, under control, and will stay in the carrier a lot longer than the stroller. When it’s time to walk, she goes up and down easily. I thought it would also be a good workout but the excellent design and weight distribution in the Boba 3G makes it feel like a whimpy daypack…

The children love carrying their baby siblings in carriers. And I love the help!


Everyone agrees with me yet that big families and good carriers rock?



Le cinquième point
Pour ceux qui attendaient toujours le cinquième fait divers que je devais garder confidentiel, voici une photo qui explique tout:
5 Cinq heures, c’est tout ce que ç’a pris pour vendre la maison: les premiers visiteurs ont fait une offre, suivie par une meilleure offre de la part des deuxièmes visiteurs. Les conditions (financement, inspection, test de qualité de l’eau) ont été levées hier et ta-daaa! La maison est vendue et j’ai récupéré ma table de cuisine.
Je ne suis pas le genre de personne qui voit des “signes” dans sa soupe. Mais c’est quand même encourageant quand les circonstances supportent nos projets!
Grand soupir de soulagement!
N’ajustez pas votre appareil! Do not tune your computer!
English Follows
Je voudrais changer l’apparence de mon blogue afin de mettre plus d’emphase sur le texte et les photos et moins sur la bannière de bienvenue. J’aimerais également trouver un format plus axé sur les commentaires puisque j’aimerais créer une communauté en-ligne où échanger trucs questions et encouragement. Je voudrais aussi pouvoir changer l’apparence de mon blogue avec les saisons.
Jusqu’à présent, j’ai eu du mal à trouver un gabarit gratuit qui me donnait la même fonctionnalité que le gabarit que j’utilise maintenant. Mais je suis prête à essayer! Alors si vous visitez mon blogue et que vous vous demandez sur quelle planète vous venz d’attérir, n’ajustez pas votre appareil!
I would like to change the appearance of my blog as to put more emphasis on the text and pictures and less on the banner. I would also like to find a format that is more “comment friendly” as I would like to create more of an online community where we can share parenting tricks, questions and encouragement. I would also like to customize the blog’s look according to the seasons.
Up until now I have had a hard time finding a free template that has the same functionality as the template I’m using now. But I’m ready to try! So if you visit my blog and you wonder on which planet you just landed, do not tune your computer!
Le bain de bébé
Hmmmm, quelle sérénité! Un petit film plein de beauté et de tranquillité.
Personalities
My St-Patrick’s Wish, with love…
Running + Dog

Why do I run? I don’t enjoy it all that much. But running is a sport that requires minimal equipment, that I can do on my schedule, right out my front door. Providing the right jogging stroller, I can even do it with my children.
Another motivating factor is the opportunity to walk my dog. Over here, in big family land, it’s multitask or die. My dog needs exercise, I need exercise, let’s kill two birds with one stone. However, if you have ever tried to run with a dog, you probably know that it’s not always as simple as strapping a leash on the animal. I mean, sure, you can strap a leash on the animal and start running. But it probably won’t be very pleasant. The dog needs training just as much as you do. Here is a sampling of issues the dog may need training to handle:
– pacing and conditioning, for instance getting their pads used to running on asphalt
– not pulling on lead (because that’s not only annoying, it may also be unsafe for the human)
– passing by distractions (squirrels, cats, other dogs)
– not peeing on every rock, tree, fire hydrant…
– not smelling every patch of grass
– handling close proximity with vehicular traffic (whether not to fear or not to chase)
In other words, you can strap a leash on the dog and deal with pulling, marking, sniffing and chasing while you are trying to run in a straight line but it’s much easier to invest a bit of time at the onset to train the dog to run at your speed and in the same direction.
Whatever your issue — mine is pulling on leash — you probably got there by letting your dog train you. As a result, the first order of business is usually to undo some bad habits that we have allowed our dog to develop. How do our dogs train us? This You Tube video by dog training expert Ian Dunbar explains how we unwittingly reward the wrong behaviours:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHKSltT2sQ8
At the beginning, you will spend more time training your dog than yourself. If you are training for speed of if you are trying to reach a set distance for a race, you may want to leave dog at home and plan your dog training for after the race.
Because I am also running with a double running stroller, my first dog training goal is to teach my dog to run beside the stroller without pulling. My desired end-state is to have the dog’s leash tied to a belt around my waist. The advantages of the belt is that your hands are not only free to handle the stroller but there is less chance that a sudden jerk from the dog will move the stroller. Your waist is also a stronger point to withstand your dog’s harebrained ideas than your hands. While I’m training my dog not to pull however I will need both hands to correct her unwanted behaviour with the leash.
When I started training my dog to run on a loose leash, I didn’t do it with the jogging stroller. Baby positive steps, this is a dog after all. I first trained my dog using this simple method in the street in front of my house. Once you read how it works, you will understand that you do not go very far at the beginning. My dog is a quick study so we soon graduated to walking on a loose leash with the jogging stroller in front of my house, then walking with the stroller in a foreign environment, then running with the stroller. The next step will be running with the leash around my waist but my dog still needs the occasional correction.
Most dogs love to run, whether large or small. Like us they need to increase their distance gradually and since they don’t wear shoes they also need to gradually condition their pads. I am neither a vet, a dog trainer or a dog expert and you should speak to one to find out what an appropriate increase in distance is for your dog.
Are certain breeds better suited to running? I suspect that breeds with very short legs can be challenged and very large breeds don’t have much endurance. But anything in between will love the exercise. I have a German Shepherd. As a woman runner in a harsh world, I appreciate a dog with a certain “back-off” quality to it but I don’t recommend German Shepherds for inexperienced dog owners. For dissuasive purposes, any black pooch of a certain size will do: black dogs tend to scare people, as any Humane Society employee can probably confirm.
Oh, one last bit of logistics that could also be filed under TMI… Running has the same effect on a dog’s bowels as yours… I recommend running a loop around your block to let your dog, ah, relieve itself. Because running with a full poop bag is, ahem, not pleasant. And picking-up after your dog is not an option.
Training your dog to be a reliable and pleasant running companion may seem like a lot of work but it’s worth it. Rain or shine, once your dog is used to accompany you on your runs she will harrass you out the door.We all need a kick sometimes and dogs are only too eager to provide it!

Light Blogging – Ralentissement
EN – This week is March Break in Ontario. I could call it March Madness. No break for me! My two oldest children are working which means that I have more driving to do, more children at home and less help. I am working on an update to the Running Diaries about running with my dog and building the twin survival page. Vie de cirque is continuing to gain momentum and my readership is no longer limited to my friends and family. I am very thankful for each view, please visit regularly and leave a comment: I love to have your feedback!
FR – C’est la relâche en Ontario, la folie printanière… pas de relâche pour moi! Mes deux plus vieux travaillent ce qui signifie plus de taxi, plus d’enfants à la maison et moins d’aide. Je travaille sur une mise-à-jour des “Running Diaries” sur le jogging avec un chien et je continue de bâtir la page des jumeaux. Vie de cirque commence à prendre son ère d’aller et mes lecteurs réguliers ne sont plus limités à ma famille et à mes amis. Je suis reconnaissante pour chacune de vos visites. Revenez régulièrement et laissez-moi un commentaire: votre feed-back est très apprécié!


